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Laura Creighton's avatar

We need to run the numbers up against the Big 5 Psychological trait tests. I think we will find that people who test high in 'agreeableness' really do not wish to lead, because they really do not want the responsibility and competition that goes with leadership. When hard decisions need to be made, they want somebody else to do the making of them. They never want to be the bringer of bad news, or to tell somebody that they are behaving badly. Managers are the focus of resentment at times -- and they want to be loved at all times. There are plenty of men who test high in agreeableness who also don't want leadership positions. Instead of looking at 'why the men who want to lead want to lead' I think it will be more fruitful to look at 'why the people of both sexes who don't, don't'. But then, I live in Sweden.

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Avivah Wittenberg-Cox's avatar

I've spent the past 20 years on gender balancing big businesses around the world...

and my short answer to your question is leadership.

As soon as a CEO is serious about gender balancing their business (and I've had the pleasure of working with many, all men btw), they do it. It's not even that hard, contentious or slow. But 'serious' is the key word. It takes will, then skill and focus. From the whole leadership team.

Key requirements:

. leadership commitment, accountability and skill

. framing: business issue, not women's issue or HR or 'diversity'

. focus more on the dominant group, and balance as a management skill

this is a long way away from the way most companies approach gender balance. Usually, it's introduced as a diversity dimension, led by women and all about 'empowering' women. A perfect set-up-to-fail framing. We've got to stop 'fixing' women and stop blaming men, and turn gender balance into a 21st century leadership skill like any other.

It's amazing we've made as much progress as we have!

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